《听说爱情回来过》

found this chinese blog and was so inspired to blog in chinese, but alas, my efforts were screwed by, 1. my pc in the office does not have chinese input 2. no matter how good Babel Fish is, it's still hard to get the words i wan 3. stupid ie crashed on me and lost my post which i took darn long to compose with Babel Fish.

I know, i could always blog in chinese at home mah, like my mei does (coz her chinese teacher made all of them do), i have xp at home leh.. chinese words are not a problem for me of course. but who wants to blog at home when i can blog in the office and make my boss think i'm hard at work.. wahahaha.. pls call me god :Þ

Anyway here's an abstract which i got from the website, I found this post interesting.. it talks alot of sense.. and i'm in the "what is love?" kinda mood these days..

《听说爱情回来过》
近年来，每每听到朋友要结婚，对男的，疯子总说，考虑清楚。
对女的，还是考虑清楚。
婚前婚后，大多两个样。
婚前只有一个甜！
婚后就柴米油盐酱醋茶！
当然，也有婚前连甜也没有的。

不，疯子不是对婚姻不满，绝无此意。
疯子认为爱情都不长久。
长久的爱情，都短命。
就因为短命，才会记得长，记得久。
所以马拉松长跑式的爱情常常有落幕的时候。

最近看了部《中国式离婚》。
里头的婚姻问题，很简单，四个字：沟通破裂。
建议所有未婚、已婚、离婚的男男女女去看一看。
或许可以看到不少自己的影子。

沟通沟通，不沟，自然就不通。
有没有发现情侣恩爱，话题不断。
越恩爱就越多说不完的废话。
天天通电话，日日见面也不腻。

很多人说和情人久了，累了，越来越没话说。
是没话题吗？
是懒了，懒得经营，懒得努力，懒得继续。
情人尚且如此，婚后不就更加不堪了吗？

时间最无情，再浓厚香甜的冰淇淋，也会随时间从冰点融化成淡而无味的死水。
在婚姻里，很多时候，责任大于爱情。
爱情走了，回来真的不太容易。
就算找到了，也是别人身上，所以我们大家时有所闻--婚外情。
不要奢望恩爱如昔。
偶尔听说爱情回来过，那种感觉已经很不错。
很久没和情人说话，偶尔说说废话吧！
当废话也不能引她发噱的时候，不要怀疑，是时候换个人了。

Love, it's elusive, it's harsh, it's something all of us wan but only precious few can get..

Love vs Life. Life erodes love.. life, working life, makes us forget what love is; forget the sweet nothings; forget the simple joy of just being with each other; forget what it feels like to be on a swing; forget how to love.. ..

.. when love becomes routine ..
.. when love becomes responsibility ..
.. when love becomes hate ..

why is it so hard to love??

爱得好坚苦.. ..